Month: October 2025
Depression Symptoms in Men and Women: What Sets Them Apart?
Imagine a dirty bedroom. The bed is unmade, clothes are strewn across the floor and water bottles decorate every surface. You want to clean. You know you should, but you can’t. Where do you start? It’s so overwhelming. Even though you want a clean room more than anything, you can’t bring yourself to do anything.
This is what depression feels like, except it’s not your room that’s messy; it’s your life.
If this scenario hits close to home, you’re not alone. Every year, about 21 million American adults go through life with major depression. It hits differently depending on age, income and life experiences. But today, we’re going to look at how sex and gender shape major depressive disorder.
The Gender Gap in Depression
Depression can start at any age, but the gap in male and female diagnosis widens as kids move through adolescence. Before puberty, boys and girls are diagnosed with depression at nearly the same rate.
Once puberty arrives, young girls struggle with guilt, sadness, trouble concentrating and negative body image. Boys with depression are more likely to lose interest in hobbies and wake up feeling drained.
Symptoms of Depression in Men vs. Women
Individuals of any gender can experience classic signs of depression like:
- Depressed mood
- Trouble thinking, concentrating or making decisions
- Fatigue, lack of energy or feeling slowed down
- Feelings of worthlessness or excessive or inappropriate guilt
- Insomnia or hypersomnia
- Loss of interest in hobbies
- Significant weight loss or gain
- Thoughts of death or suicide
But here’s the thing: The tools for diagnosing depression are based largely on women’s symptoms, since women are diagnosed more often — 16% of women compared to 10.1% of men. So, these classic symptoms mostly describe how depression shows up in women, not necessarily men.
Signs of Depression in Men
For men, depression is far more external. Men are often taught to bottle up their emotions, so when depression surfaces, it can look like:
- Controlling or abusive behavior
- Escapism (like spending a lot of time at work)
- Impulsive anger
- Physical complaints: headaches, stomach issues or neck and back pain
- Risk-taking (like compulsive gambling)
- Substance abuse
Why Male Depression Often Goes Undiagnosed
Because these aren’t the “typical” signs, male depression is often overlooked. Social expectations also push many men to hide their feelings and avoid asking for help, fearing the stigma and discrimination that depression can bring. So, they suffer in silence.
Beyond Biology: The Role of Gender
Biology isn’t the whole story here, however. Consider that the gender gap narrows in populations with greater gender equality, and that gender inequality is associated with higher rates of depression in women.
It’s also men, not women, that are more likely to struggle with depression later in life if they’re single or have less social support. With this perspective, it’s clear that socially constructed roles, not just biological sex, can shape depression.
Types of Depression That Only Affect Women
Women face unique types of depression, particularly during life stages that trigger hormonal changes:
- Premenstrual dysphoric disorder (PMDD) is a severe form of premenstrual syndrome (PMS) with debilitating symptoms like mood swings, irritability, appetite changes, difficulty sleeping, suicidal thoughts and physical symptoms, such as breast tenderness or headaches.
- Perimenopausal depression can affect women during menopause. As if abnormal periods, sleep issues, mood swings and hot flashes weren’t enough, perimenopausal depression can trigger intense anxiety, sadness and loss of enjoyment of life.
- Perinatal depression shows up during pregnancy or after childbirth. Symptoms include feelings of deep sadness and hopelessness as well as trouble bonding with and persistent doubts of caring for the baby.
New dads can go through the “baby blues,” too. Known as paternal postpartum depression, this depressive episode resembles postpartum depression, with symptoms like sadness, frustration and fatigue. Hormonal changes and the stress of parenthood can make anyone vulnerable, regardless of gender.
All in all, if you know some new parents, check up on them and send some well wishes their way (or better yet, a gift card for food delivery).
Men vs. Women: Suicide Risk and Getting Help
Though women are far more likely to experience suicidal thoughts, men are more likely to die by suicide, accounting for eight out of every 10 cases in the U.S. The reason? Men often turn to more lethal methods, like firearms, while women more often choose less deadly means, like poisoning.
Everyone has a hard time admitting they need help. Women are more likely than men to seek help: 43% of women compared to 33.2% of men attend therapy or counseling. But the real takeaway should be that there is help out there, and it actually works.
Where to Find Help for Depression
Talk therapy and medications have helped countless people manage depression and other mental health struggles.
Not sure where to begin? Try the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration — they’ve got free help and support.
Or check out FindTreatment.gov for local options.
And if you just want to learn more, NAMI (the National Alliance on Mental Illness) has resources that make the maze of mental health a whole lot easier to navigate.
Key Takeaways
Here are a few things worth keeping in mind after this read:
- Do men and women experience depression differently?
Yes. Women experience traditional depression symptoms like sadness, fatigue or loss of interest in hobbies. For men, depression is more external and characterized by anger, escapism and substance abuse.
- Why is depression often overlooked in men?
Male symptoms of depression don’t always align with traditional symptoms, so professionals may not spot the signs. Men also downplay their symptoms and feelings out of fear of being stigmatized.
- What types of depression are unique to women?
Women can experience premenstrual dysphoric disorder (PMDD), perimenopausal depression and perinatal depression, all of which occur during life stages that trigger hormonal changes.
- Can men get postpartum depression?
Yes. New moms and dads alike can feel the “baby blues.” Men going through paternal postpartum depression experience many of the symptoms associated with postpartum depression, including feelings of sadness, frustration and fatigue.
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Sources:
https://www.hopkinsmedicine.org/health/conditions-and-diseases/depression-his-versus-hers
https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10102695/
https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/depression/in-depth/male-depression/art-20046216
https://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/publications/depression-in-women
The Science Behind Blushing from Embarrassment
Can you think of the last time you felt embarrassed in public? Maybe you tripped over a chair during a work meeting or fumbled your words during a presentation. Whatever the reason, did you feel the telltale signs of embarrassment?
You know the ones: the heat rushing to your cheeks, the increased thump-thump-thumping of your heart and the uncomfortable butterflies in your stomach?
These aren’t just feelings; they’re full-body physiological responses. We’re here to break down why embarrassment produces such a strong physical reaction in so many of us.
Why Does the Body React to Embarrassment?
Our brains perceive embarrassment as a threat to social belonging, which activates the fight-or-flight response via the sympathetic nervous system. But what’s driving all that physiological drama?
Humans are highly social creatures. Whether or not you care what others think, our brains are hardwired to value group acceptance. From an evolutionary standpoint, being rejected by the group once meant losing access to food, safety or protection. While our environments have changed, that deep-rooted instinct hasn’t.
That’s why even minor social slip-ups, like spilling coffee on yourself or tripping in front of a crowd, can trigger real physical symptoms. You might blush, start sweating or even feel your stomach drop. It’s your body’s way of saying: “Hey, this could be important—pay attention!”
Butterflies and Blushing: What’s Happening Internally
In an embarrassing moment, all you care about is making it stop — anything to stop your heart from pounding or your face from heating up. But what’s the science behind why we find ourselves blushing from embarrassment?
Several bodily systems work together to create these uncomfortable physical symptoms. Below, we break it down, one awkward reaction at a time:
Blushing
Embarrassment activates the sympathetic nervous system, causing vasodilation. Your blood vessels begin to dilate, and in uncomfortable situations, you’ll often notice the effects of vasodilation on your face and neck, making those areas visibly red.
Butterflies
Most of us have felt it: a sudden drop in the stomach that feel like butterflies fluttering inside. Other times, it’s more like elephants stampeding to get out. Either way, the sensation is caused by a reduction in digestive activity.
When your brain triggers the fight-or-flight response, your stomach reacts to stress hormones by slowing down digestion. This allows more blood to be rerouted to the lungs and muscles, prepping the body for quick action if needed. That sudden dip in gut activity is what creates the unsettling, fluttery feeling in your stomach.
Increased Heart Rate
An awkward moment might not seem like a true “social threat,” but your brain disagrees. When it triggers your sympathetic nervous system, your adrenal glands respond by releasing adrenaline, which in turn causes your heart rate to increase.
It may seem unnecessary when all you want is for the floor to swallow you whole. However, from an evolutionary standpoint, the increased heart rate is your body’s way of responding to perceived danger (even if that “danger” is accidentally calling your teacher mom in front of the whole class).
Can You Control Embarrassment Responses?
Sadly, no — you can’t control how your body reacts to embarrassing situations. Most physiological responses are autonomic, meaning they happen without conscious effort. Just like you can’t will your pupils to dilate or your heart to beat, your body kicks into embarrassment mode on its own after a bout of social trauma.
However, some coping strategies may reduce the intensity of some of these not-so-pleasant side-effects, like:
- Box breathing
This simple technique slows your breath and signals safety to your nervous system. Try breathing in for five seconds, holding for five, exhaling for five, and holding for five more. Repeat a few times until your breathing and mind begin to calm.
- Reframing
With this technique, you mentally shift your perspective to reduce the perceived threat of the situation. For example, instead of thinking “Everyone saw me trip — how embarrassing!”, try “Everyone trips sometimes. At least I can laugh it off.”
- Practice
As uncomfortable as it might sound, repeated exposure to awkward or high-pressure moments (like public speaking) can desensitize your response over time.
Before you know it, the redness in your cheeks will fade and your racing heart will return to its normal pace, all thanks to the parasympathetic nervous system. Like a built-in reset button, this system slows your heart rate, lowers blood pressure and returns your body to a calm, balanced state after a fight-or-flight response.
Frequently Asked Questions About Embarrassment
Embarrassment is something we all experience. However, few of us stop to wonder why our bodies react the way they do. Below are answers to a few common questions that break down the physiological processes behind those awkward, full-body responses.
- What happens to your body when you’re embarrassed?
Several systems spring into action at once. Blood vessels dilate, causing facial redness. The heart speeds up to pump more blood, and digestion slows down, producing the infamous “butterflies.” All of these are involuntary responses aimed at preparing the body for a perceived threat, even if the “danger” is just tripping over your words in a meeting.
- Why do we care so much about what others think?
Even if you tell yourself not to worry about other people’s opinions, your brain is wired to value group acceptance. From an evolutionary perspective, being part of a group once meant survival. That ancient wiring still influences our emotions today, especially in social situations that feel threatening or high-stakes.
- Can you stop yourself from blushing or feeling butterflies?
Not really. Most of these reactions are controlled by your autonomic nervous system, which means they happen without conscious control. However, techniques like box breathing, cognitive reframing and repeated exposure to stressful situations can help reduce their intensity over time.
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